There Were Times

You can't see what you're doing to me

All those nights you threatened to leave

All those times you walked out on me

Have forced me to see

You're not for me

I'm not saying that all this was wrong

God knows I've loved you all along

And I will miss the good times we shared

You know that I cared

Or I wouldn't be there

Chorus

There were times

But this is goodbye

There were nights

But I need my pride

There were days

But I made up my mind

This is goodbye

For the last time

Please don't stand there so unaware

You know this hasn't been working for years

We've both changed and you know that it's true

It's what I have to do

I'm gonna miss you



Chorus

There were times

But this is goodbye

There were nights

But I need my pride

There were days

But I made up my mind

This is goodbye

For the last time

Oh, it's the last time

For you to kiss me

Oh, it's the last time

For you to hold me

Oh, just remember

How sweet love can be

You don't need me

Chorus

There were times

But this is goodbye

There were nights

But I need my pride

There were days

But I made up my mind

This is goodbye

For the last time

Oh, it's the last time

Yeah, it's the last time

(To fade...)

I am proud to say I have no ex's that I hate.  Saying goodbye to someone you've loved should never be an anger thing.... There are exceptions of course... abuse and such.... but even something like cheating I think is forgivable... not that I would stay with someone who cheats but if you really love someone.... can you not forgive them their mistakes and remember all the good times before them.... People grow apart and people change but every person in our lives that we love and who love us is embedded upon our hearts forever.  For those of you that do hate your ex's I say this... there is a fine line between love and hate... I suspect you wouldn't hate them so much if you didn't love them deep down somewhere.